The Real World

Date: Thursday May 31, 2007
Posted in: Family, Friends

As you all know, I have taken on way too much a bit of a heavy workload. It’s been overwhelmingly crazy a little on the busy side, but Matthew has taken over the majority of the errands/grocery shopping/childrearing. I’m GOING CRAZY AND FEEL LIKE I MIGHT LOSE IT doing well, considering that I’m putting in about eight to ten hours of (paying) work per day. Every day. Seven days a week.

Ahem.

Composing myself, because there is a bright note. Two, actually.

My good friend Amanda was good enough to host a girls’ night last Saturday. It was a much needed outing for me, as I’ve only been leaving our house about once per week. I’m not even kidding. I had brought my camera, but didn’t pull it out as we were too busy stuffing our faces. And looking at pictures on Facebook. Aren’t we wild?

We really are.

On to my second bright spot of the week. Our best buds Karen and Travis told us we’d better meet them at the beach for supper, or they would give us fifty lashes with a wet noodle.

OK, they just asked nicely, and we jumped at the opportunity. Wouldn’t you?

Beach!

Summer has ARRIVED in the Okanagan. It’s HOT, and nothing says summer like a potluck picnic at the beach. Well, margaritas say summer but we all had to drive. Pop was the beverage du jour.

(I’d do a slide show, but I don’t have the time to figure it out. See above about the craziness that is my life right now. Please excuse the onslaught of photos…I can’t help myself.)

The kids all had a great time. The four older kids pretty much left us alone played on the playground equipment and in the sand.

Graham

Nathan

Here’s Graham and his future wife Sarah, deep in conversation.

Coppin’ a feel?

It looks like he’s making a play, but can I remind you that he’s FOUR? Besides, they wouldn’t do anything like that until they hit their thirties. That’s my story, and I’m sticking to it.

(Sidenote: Here’s a cute story for you. Graham and Sarah always tell us that they’re going to get married to each other. Graham told me this again today and said, “I’m going to be the King, and Sarah is going to be my Princess. I’m going to give her a crown.”)

Awwww….but back to the beach.

Emily was her usual sweet self, and we just plunked her right in the centre of the picnic table while we ate dinner. Her “fast hands” made it a little interesting, but we managed to keep anything harmful out of her reach. Then we sat her on the beach blanket, and she amused herself for over twenty minutes with this:

The juice box of fun

Yes, an empty juice box. Karen and I were laughing at how with our first babies, we would be sure to pack all of the age appropriate toys (rattles, teethers, cups, etc.) And Emily? She gets an empty juice box.

She didn’t seem to know the difference.

Here’s another cute one of her, if only for my Mom. Hi Mom!

Miss Emily

It was good to get away from work and spend good time with great friends. I needed that. Desperately.

While the sporadic re-connections on Facebook have been great (and weird? and crazy? and cool?) There’s something to be said for hanging out in the real world with real people. Like these two:

Karen and Travis

And don’t Matthew and I look happy to be at the beach?

Honey & I

It was the first time I had worn a normal bra. While the nursing bras are hot and all (what with the three-inch-wide straps and huge clasps) I thought I’d pass on that look. Don’t worry, Emily didn’t starve…and I looked somewhat fashionable.

Three weeks left, dudes. Then I’ll have all of the time in the world to blog/Facebook/etc.

Better yet?

I’ll have human connections coming out the wazoo. And DAILY beach time.

Can’t. Hardly. Wait.




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Sounds like you’ve had some much-needed relaxation time! It looks lovely there, great beach!! Kids look cute too :-)

Comment by Hannah on May 31st, 2007 @ 9:12 pm

SO jealous of the beach time. The way we’re going we’ll be ducks any day now!

3 weeks - you can do it! Think of the direct deposit coming your way :-)

Comment by Kami on May 31st, 2007 @ 9:17 pm

Wow, life sounds pretty busy right now for you. Make sure you put enought time aside to spend with your family. That’s most important.

Comment by Kacie on May 31st, 2007 @ 9:25 pm

Graham is totally poking her not-boob.

That lake looks so nice! I remember seeing pictures of Amanda on her blog with the lake in the background — before I pieced together where you all are from — and I truly thought she was the luckiest girl to live on the Monterey Bay in California. Who knew you were all so far north? (Apparently I didn’t…)

Good luck getting through the last of “the busies” at work.

p.s. I wonder what HOT means to you? Hot here is 100 degrees. I’m sure hot to you is 30, and that sounds cold! ;)

It was 35 degrees CELSIUS today, which is 95 degrees Fahrenheit. We’re in Canada…not the Arctic ;)

Comment by LVGurl on May 31st, 2007 @ 9:55 pm

Sounds like a couple fun evenings out! Good luck with the rest of your work…Hope the time flies!

Comment by Michele on May 31st, 2007 @ 11:18 pm

OOPS! I need to clarify my comment!! I lack the ability to convert Celsius to Fahrenheit. So, though I’m vaguely aware that 35 degrees is nice and toasty, it looks like a temperature that is a smidge above freezing. (As opposed to insinuating that you’re all polar bears ;) )

Sorry Ang! I hope I didn’t offend you and my fellow neighbors up north with my poorly executed metric system humor!

But seriously, where you all live looks like the Northern California coast…

Comment by LVGurl on June 1st, 2007 @ 7:05 am

Just love the beach…..summer rocks :)

Comment by Jazz on June 1st, 2007 @ 7:43 am

I love the real world!

And, we love you guys! Here’s to many more picnics on the beach.

Comment by Karen on June 1st, 2007 @ 7:51 am

SO glad you got some away time. Looks like such a fun time with friends.

I agree with LVGurl, he was totally copping a feel. Way to go little one! Woo Hoo!

Hope this craziness ends soon, for all of your sakes!

Peace out.

Comment by little miss mel on June 1st, 2007 @ 8:44 am

Looks like a great time! The juice box pic made me laugh because we’re totally like that with our kids. Some people come to hang out with us with bags of toys and we bring our kids their shoes! Yay for simplicity and the simple pleasures of life.

Comment by Amanda Franks on June 1st, 2007 @ 10:56 am

wow- sounds very busy at your place! This weather is gorgeous!! You know it is summer when the blender comes out! I was going to do non alcoholic maragritas yesterday, but made smoothies with just frozen berries and pineapple juuice. yum.

We are so blessed to live here, especially when it was snowing in calgary not long ago!

Comment by kelly on June 1st, 2007 @ 7:57 pm

I think we should do picnics at the park (pap’s haha) every wednesday.

Comment by Karen on June 3rd, 2007 @ 3:00 pm