Today is Matthew’s thirty-first birthday. I have been pondering how to celebrate this amazing man that I get to call my husband and came up with a splendid (in my humble opinion) idea.
(Here is last year’s post, if you are interested. I’ll also post the photo taken during our dinner out.)
I think he is pretty neat.
I am going to make a list of thirty-three things that I love about him. Sweet, and simple.
Honey? This list is for you.
1. Let’s start with the obvious, shall we? You are HOT.
Mmmmm…
2. You are completely humble. Despite the obvious hotness, you do not see yourself as the deep well of manliness that you are. I understand. I, too, had a fifteen-year awkward phase. But Honey? I see it. Everyone else sees it. I have received many comments and emails confirming this over the years. I even had one Internet friend suggest that I take a photo of you wearing only a tool belt. Hee!
3. You make me feel like I am the most beautiful woman on the planet. You always support me, encourage me, and challenge me. You make me a better person.
4. You flirt with me so openly, and agree with me that we should keep it up even as the kids start to understand because a) It will be a good example of how to love your spouse, and b) It will EMBARRASS THEM BEYOND ALL MEASURE.
5. The way you sleep. Flat on your back, nose pointing toward the head of the bed. It looks awfully uncomfortable and hysterically funny.
6. Your farts rarely stink. This is another example of how we balance each other out, because mine? Rarely do not stink.
7. You can build almost anything out of wood. You are gifted this way. I love how I can show you a photo of something and you can build it from scratch.
8. Your eyes. They are the coolest shade of blue/grey.
9. The way you push my buttons. Sometimes it makes me want to clock you, but most of the time I appreciate the fact that you are just playing with me.
10. You truly are my equal when it comes to keeping this house running. Truth be told, you are actually my superior. You are WAY BETTER at cleaning than I am. And yet? Still manly.
11. You are the best Daddy a kid could ever hope for.
That photo makes my ovaries ache. Except for the whole nine-months-of-discomfort/pushing-monster-babies-out-of-a-small-opening thing.
12. You
13. Make
14. Me
15. Laugh.
16. Often.
17. And.
18. Loudly.
19. You won’t be offended if I keep the points short. You are more about the pictures than the reading, anyway.
20. You are a man of great faith, of great wisdom, of great maturity. You are respected by everyone who knows you; peers, children, elders.
21. You have a peace about you.
22. You have athletic ability (Former star of the basketball team, current living legend!). I do not have said athletic ability. I am more prone to tripping UP the stairs and giving myself a black eye. I hope the kids take after you in the athleticism department.
23. I hate pork chops with the power of a thousand burning suns. You have given up pork chops for me.
24. I like to bake all sorts of sweet treats, but not partake of them. You love chocolate with the power of a thousand burning suns. This works well for both of us.
25. Um. You are good at “napping”.
26. You have great Man Hands. Big, strong, secure.
27. The way you get similar-sounding words mixed up. It brings our conversations to a whole new level of hilarity.
28. You give me all the time I need want to be creative. You want me to be happy, and do all that you can to keep me there.
29. Your butt.
30. Your smile.
31. You are the best friend I have ever had. We spend all day, every day together, and we would not have it any other way.
Happy Birthday, Matthew!
(You guys are welcome to give him birthday wishes too. It will help make up for the fact that I, um, did not buy him a present. YET. We’re going out on Saturday to shop and celebrate.)
51 Comments
Yikes, I didn’t know I was older than Matt. Not that he looks older, I just didn’t realize it. That was great Angela. God is so good when he gives us men that make us better women. Sounds like he gave you the perfect balance and help mate. Happy Birthday Matthew!
Comment by Filtering Life on March 26th, 2008 @ 3:56 amHappy Birthday, Matthew!
Angella ~ Your tribute to him is as wonderful as any “present” would be!
Have a great time on Saturday!
Comment by Lisa C on March 26th, 2008 @ 4:05 amWhat a sweet post. And Happy Birthday to him!
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Comment by Janssen on March 26th, 2008 @ 5:17 amI think you gave him his present right here. Happy Birthday!
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Comment by Holly on March 26th, 2008 @ 5:21 amHappy birthday Matthew! You’re one lucky lucky man!:)
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Comment by Erin on March 26th, 2008 @ 5:25 amHappy Birthday Matthew! That was a great post Angella.
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Comment by Jill - GlossyVeneer on March 26th, 2008 @ 5:57 amHappy Birthday Matthew!
Angella, you made me laugh out loud on more than one of those points. Goodness, you’re a hilarious lady.
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Comment by Mrs. Wilson on March 26th, 2008 @ 6:37 amThat was sweet. You guys are a gorgeous couple.
Happy birthday, Matthew!
Comment by Heather on March 26th, 2008 @ 6:49 amYep, I think this post by far outshines any gift you could purchase.
Happy Birthday, Matthew!
Comment by gorillabuns on March 26th, 2008 @ 6:56 amHappy Birthday Matthew - how blessed you both are to be loved so completely by each other!
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Comment by Ashley on March 26th, 2008 @ 6:59 amVery sweet post, Ange! I loved it. You had a special man, that’s for sure.
Happy birthday Matthew!
Comment by Jen on March 26th, 2008 @ 7:03 amHappy Birthday, Matt! You are both so lucky to have each other.
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Comment by Amanda Brown on March 26th, 2008 @ 7:06 amHappy Birthday Matthew (and fellow Aries)!
It’s fantastic to see such a great couple shine together.
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Comment by sizzle on March 26th, 2008 @ 7:15 amYay… Happy Birthday Matthew!!!
Hope you have a wonderful day!
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Comment by reddirtroad on March 26th, 2008 @ 7:39 amYAY for lists 
Happy B-Day Matthew!
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Comment by songsinblue on March 26th, 2008 @ 7:48 amHBDAY M!
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Comment by little miss mel on March 26th, 2008 @ 7:50 amWhat a sweet post
Happy Birthday Matthew!
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Comment by hills on March 26th, 2008 @ 7:55 amThat’s a beautiful post. Very sweet!
Happy Birthday, Matthew!
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Comment by Sharon on March 26th, 2008 @ 8:11 amHappy Birthday, Matthew!!
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Comment by metalia on March 26th, 2008 @ 8:24 ami love your story. i love how your love for each other just shines through. i think too many people settle but what you guys have is incredible and is a great example of what a great relationship can be like. and I’m laughing at the “napping” one. but you’re both hot and young and now is the time for lots of “naps” 
happy birthday!
#6 is my favorite. that’s true love right there!
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LOL You are awesome, Angela.
Happy Birthday to Matthew!
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Comment by Marcie on March 26th, 2008 @ 9:12 amHappy Birthday to Honey!
(Heh, I just called your husband Honey… 
)
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Comment by LVGurl on March 26th, 2008 @ 9:26 amHappy Birthday Honey!!!
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Comment by Victoria on March 26th, 2008 @ 10:31 amHappy Birthday, Matthew!
You guys are so blessed to have each other. God wanted the best for you both.
I laughed a few times while reading that. Especially about the “napping”. Hee!!
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Comment by Hannah on March 26th, 2008 @ 10:56 amThat is the sweetest post of all time. HAPPY BIRTHDAY to your hubs!
P.S.
The photo with his head down in the white shirt is AWESOME.
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Comment by Loralee on March 26th, 2008 @ 11:01 amHave a great day together…happy birthday Matthew!
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Comment by Vicki on March 26th, 2008 @ 11:04 amThese words, I bet, will make him smile more than a present.
Happy Birthday Matthew!
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Comment by Karla on March 26th, 2008 @ 11:16 amHappy Birthday Matthew!
Great list Angella, it made me laugh. It makes me happy that the 2 of you are so happy!
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Comment by Kristin on March 26th, 2008 @ 1:21 pmThis was so sweet.
I think my favorite part was “I think he is pretty neat.” You crack me up.
Happy! Day of Cake to Matthew. And what an amazing cake it is!
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Comment by Kerri Anne on March 26th, 2008 @ 1:25 pmWhat a great post, I especially like #7. That applies to Jay and me too… why though? To me it’s just not fair… I am supposed to be the lady after all.
Ah well, c’est la vie!
Happy Birthday Matthew:-)
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Comment by Kami on March 26th, 2008 @ 2:02 pmI thought you’d put his butt at spot numero uno instead of 29. Happy birthday Matthew. If you even read these comments. You’ll have to tell him if he doesn’t. We like him too. But, not as much as you do. Which is a good thing.
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Comment by christy on March 26th, 2008 @ 2:07 pmHappy Birthday Matthew!
Good list, LOVE the point about that picture making your ovaries hurt, I SO know what you mean, not about that picture, but you get my point.
Have a GREAT time celebrating on Sat!
Happy birthday, Matthew! Here’s to another 31 great years…and many more!
Comment by Leah on March 26th, 2008 @ 3:26 pmOk, just kidding!!! (Sort of…)
Your relationship is an inspiration to me…I hope one day I will find my “honey!”
Happy Birthday Matthew!
Comment by Michele on March 26th, 2008 @ 6:35 pmOh, one more thing…
I LOVE the picture of Matthew and the kids - beautiful!
Comment by Michele on March 26th, 2008 @ 6:36 pmHappy Bithday Matthew.
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Comment by Elizabeth on March 26th, 2008 @ 7:48 pmand yes, I said bithday.. I meant “Birthday” - duh!
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Comment by Elizabeth on March 26th, 2008 @ 7:49 pmThat is so beautiful! What a lucky guy! Happy Birthday!!
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Comment by Sue on March 27th, 2008 @ 4:41 amVery, very sweet.
Hopefully he won’t mind when I steal you away for five whole days.
Happy Birthday, Matthew!
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Comment by Dutch Blitz » You Do What You Love on March 27th, 2008 @ 12:04 pmHappy Birthday Matthew!!
What a wonderful couple you two make!
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Comment by Lisa on March 27th, 2008 @ 3:13 pmHAPPY BIRTHDAY MATTHEW!
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Comment by She Likes Purple on March 28th, 2008 @ 2:37 pmHappy Belated Birthday!
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Comment by 180/360 on March 28th, 2008 @ 10:28 pmWow…how wonderful to see how much you love your hubby… that is so special…. some of your comments about him reminded me of my hubby too…
hope he had a great birthday…
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Comment by Barb on March 29th, 2008 @ 8:12 amI am SO late to this party, seeing as you’re latest post says how Matthew is SPENDING HIS B-DAY MONEY, but such is my style
HAPPY BIRTHDAY MATTHEW!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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Comment by The Over-Thinker on March 29th, 2008 @ 5:17 pmThat’s a wonderful photo collection: Matthew was the guy I read about long ago, the husband…proud father…a real man. Currently, I’m courting a girlfriend with a 21 mo. old son of her own and I been her friend first, then after she and her ex broke up…and had a baby, we thought of goin out and stuff. It’s hard for any adult to balance a job, relationship and family…and I wanna add I’m a man diagnosed with autism who held on a part-time job and his own apartment. Everyone has problems and struggles in some way or another (such as me), but we all gotta enjoy life…and what we have like in your case, a kind gentle man and father of your 3 kids. +
Comment by Michael on April 3rd, 2008 @ 6:47 amP.S. Happy late B-day Matthew and nice to meet you too. I had spoken to Angela in late 2006 right after her daughter is born. I forgot about her for awhile, but I came back to see how you all doin. If you wanna add me to your buddy list, go ahead…if not, fine with me. I’m a subscriber of LiveJournal to reply to blogs from those I met in a cartoon message boards.
Comment by Michael on April 3rd, 2008 @ 6:49 am
What? No prezzie? You need to take a nap, Missy!
Beautiful birthday tribute. Happy Birthday, Matthew.
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